a curse?

Troy and I were talking recently about his ability to discern the true character of people sometimes at a glance.  Some would say he is judging a book by the cover, but this is not exactly the case.  There are certain things he notices and when these things are put together he can tell a lot about someone.  Funny thing, he is most often very accurate.  I love that Troy has this ability.  He is aggravated by it at times, but overall I do think it is a positve capability rather than a curse.  Seeing how people are makes him more thoughtful and aware of who he is willing to trust and with what things they can and should be entrusted.  He is very careful about who plays a significant part in the lives of our children and for that, I am especially grateful.